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  • A woman sits in a window looking out, seemingly deep in thought. The tone is quiet and a bit somber, we wonder if this girl is in her healing process and if she is experiencing pain and repressed emotions.
    Boundaries & Self-Respect - Confidence & Self-Worth - Emotional Awareness - Healing & Inner Work - Perspective and Growth

    Why Healing Sometimes Hurts More Than Survival Mode

    May 31, 2025 - By Susie

    When we imagine healing, many of us picture something soft. We might expect lightness, peace, or a specific kind of clarity. Eventually, yes, those things do come. However, in the beginning – and often right in the thick of it – healing can feel like a flood of emotions. It can feel overwhelming and we can sense it in places we didn’t even know we were holding pain. Something that doesn’t get talked about quite as much, is that healing sometimes hurts, too. Sometimes, healing can feel a little confusing. You might find yourself thinking, “Why does this hurt more…

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  • A woman sits alone at the beach, silver linings and rays of sun break through dark clouds. The image is optimistic with notes of sadness. It's a great representation of what it's like to be an empath. It is a metaphor for how being an empath can be heavy and difficult at times, but it's possible to stop absorbing other peoples energy.
    Emotional Awareness - Healing & Inner Work - Perspective and Growth

    How to Stop Absorbing Other People’s Energy: A Guide for Empaths

    May 20, 2025 - By Susie

    Have you ever been in a large group of people – maybe a work happy hour or out Christmas shopping – and suddenly felt your energy shift? Perhaps you started feeling stressed, anxious, or frustrated for no apparent reason. If you identify as an empath, these moments probably happen often. It could be as simple as someone in your vicinity carrying a heavy emotional load, and suddenly, you feel it too. While being an empath allows you to experience life deeply, it’s essential to recognize when you’re picking up other people’s emotions. Read on for more perspective on how to…

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  • The image shows a man sitting alone at a table looking out over the ocean. The viewer is seeing this man through an open doorway. The image relates to the post with a sense of possibility and optimism. Changing your mindset can help you build your self-esteem, it seems that this man is looking into the future with a positive outlook because he is changing his mindset and feeling better about himself.
    Boundaries & Self-Respect - Confidence & Self-Worth - Emotional Awareness - Healing & Inner Work - Perspective and Growth

    How Mindset Plays a Big Part in Building Self-Esteem

    May 17, 2025 - By Susie

    If there’s one thing that catches my attention almost immediately, it’s when I hear someone talk down to themselves. Whether it’s a friend, a family member, or a colleague, I’ve heard so many people say really harsh things after a simple mistake – things like, “I’m so stupid,” or, “What an idiot.” Every time, my heart sinks a little. I would never say something so cruel to them – and I certainly wouldn’t stand quietly if someone else did. When it comes to building self-esteem, this kind of talk is detrimental to your progress. It makes me wonder: what kind…

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  • We are looking a a city view, through broken fence. This image represents the core ideas in this blog, which are walls, barriers and boundaries. Does this fence represent a wall, barrier or a boundary? And does the hole in the fence mean that the viewer is breaking through those defenses to discover emotional freedom?
    Boundaries & Self-Respect - Emotional Awareness - Healing & Inner Work - Perspective and Growth

    Emotional Defenses After Conflict: Walls, Barriers and Boundaries

    May 13, 2025 - By Susie

    Everyone experiences pain at some point in their life. Whether you’re talking about things like loss, or disappointment, or learning that your best friend really isn’t a friend to you after all – pain from these moments teaches us something. Everyone reacts differently to painful lessons; some folks take it in stride and use that discomfort to create meaningful change in their lives. Others hold on to the pain, and sometimes they take protective measures to ensure they don’t get hurt again. In this post, we’ll discuss the difference between walls, barriers and boundaries. When it comes to protecting ourselves and…

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    Cultivating Courage: The Everyday Bravery of Being You

    May 10, 2025 - By Susie

    Let’s talk about cultivating courage. Not the movie kind with explosions and last-minute rescues. Not the kind reserved for warriors, ninjas, or people who eat raw onions on purpose. I want to talk about the everyday kind – the courage it takes to simply be human in this world. Courage, at its heart, is not about fearlessness, it’s about showing up even when fear is present. It’s about speaking up, even when your voice shakes. Being courageous is about making a choice that aligns with your values, even when it’s inconvenient. Courage is not the absence of fear; it’s the…

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  • A woman stands alone in front of the subway. The stark white elements lead the viewer to wonder if this woman is lonely or feeling a lot of emotions. Per the post, this woman could be dealing with feelings of unaddressed childhood trauma and emotional neglect, which caused her to become a people-pleaser.
    Emotional Awareness - Healing & Inner Work - Perspective and Growth

    How Trauma and Emotional Neglect Can Lead to People-Pleasing

    May 6, 2025 - By Susie

    I’ve talked to a lot of people who would consider themselves ‘people-pleasers’. If you can relate, you might already know that it’s exhausting, lonely and never ending. People-pleasing is deeper than the desire for attention or approval, the desire to people-please is a message that there are parts of you that need to heal. For many of us, constantly tending to other people’s emotions, and keeping tabs on how they feel is a deeply ingrained survival mechanism – something we learned early on in life to stay safe, feel enough, or avoid rejection. More often than not, this pattern stems all…

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  • A group of people are standing around and the image is blurry. This blurry image relates to seeing your relationships with people in a new, perhaps uncomfortable way. As a people pleaser, this might be the beginning stages of what it feels like to let go of the need to please.
    Boundaries & Self-Respect - Confidence & Self-Worth - Emotional Awareness - Healing & Inner Work - Perspective and Growth

    Learning to Let People Down: A People-Pleaser’s Guide to Disappointment

    May 3, 2025 - By Susie

    People-pleasers are often described as “nice”. Beyond nice, however, people-pleasers are sensitive, emotionally attuned and often deeply empathetic. The problem occurs when empathy becomes your way of survival; when you unconsciously believe that other people’s comfort is more important than your truth – it gradually depletes your self-worth.  People-pleasing is a survival strategy, and we do it out of fear – fear of disappointing others, fear of abandonment. Fear that if we don’t make other people happy; we aren’t lovable.  The Unseen Burden of Pleasing If you were conditioned to view approval as the same as love, you likely learned…

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  • A man is walking across the street, he is looking over at the camera, smiling. He might be the exact person this post is for, someone who feels the need to people-please, and doesn't realize that he is enough just as he is.
    Boundaries & Self-Respect - Confidence & Self-Worth - Emotional Awareness - Healing & Inner Work - Perspective and Growth

    Being a People-Pleaser and Sacrificing Self-Worth

    April 26, 2025 - By Susie

    We live out certain patterns in our lives, and sometimes we aren’t even aware that it’s happening. These are repeated behaviors we have been acting out for a very long time, and yet we have no conscious awareness of them. Being a people-pleaser is a manifestation of one of those patterns. On the outside, it can look like simply being helpful, offering a friendly smile or giving of your time to those who need it. However, on a deeper level, it can stem from fear, a desire to be enough, and a belief that our worth is dependent on how…

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    Reclaim Your Power: Why We Give It Away and How to Take It Back

    April 22, 2025 - By Susie

    People give their power away in so many areas of their lives, and sometimes they don’t even realize it’s happening. We seek validation from external sources like our partners, bosses, social circles, and even social media. From the car we drive to the vacations we take, especially in the photo proof for our social pages, our sense of self-worth can be tied to the things that we own and how many people approve of us. Now, however, we’re going to take a different approach – it’s time to stop abandoning yourself and reclaim your power. After all of the work…

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  • a woman standing in quite reflection, having just been rejected. She is realizing that she doesn't need to please everyone.
    Boundaries & Self-Respect - Healing & Inner Work - Perspective and Growth

    How to Be Okay with Rejection: You Don’t Need to People-Please

    April 19, 2025 - By Susie

    Why It Hurts to Be Disliked We grow up conditioned to believe that we need to be liked by the people around us. Society tells us – sometimes gently, sometimes not – that universal approval is the goal. We’re taught to please, to perform, to soften our edges in exchange for acceptance. We are never taught how to deal with, let alone be okay with rejection. From school hallways to social media feeds, the message is clear: being liked means you’re safe, valued, and worthy. But let’s zoom out for a second. Does that really make any sense? There are…

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