• Let go of fear, heal from the past
    Confidence & Self-Worth - Emotional Awareness - Perspective and Growth

    How To Listen to Yourself and Let Go of the Past

    November 7, 2024 - By 

    In my journey of self-discovery, I’ve come to recognize a powerful truth: answers come when you listen to yourself. Recently, I had a revelation that was a game-changer. It wasn’t the first big insight I’ve had, but this one felt different—deeper, more freeing. Let me share how I got to this point and what it means to listen for answers and let go of the past. Repeating Patterns and Aha Moments Like many, I’ve spent countless hours replaying scenarios in my mind. Most of them were variations of a scene where I stand up for myself—strong, confident, and in control.…

  • Take a Breath, How to be Less Reactive
    Boundaries & Self-Respect - Emotional Awareness - Perspective and Growth

    Take a Breath: How to be Less Reactive

    November 7, 2024 - By 

    Why Remaining Calm in Stressful Situations Changes EverythingRemaining calm is going to be the first step you take in assessing a situation. There are so many different day-to-day events that can trigger us—how do you know when and how to be less reactive when you’re emotionally triggered? Take a breath.  We aren’t talking about extenuating circumstances where you might be in danger; if you find yourself looking at a hungry bear that wants to chase you, go ahead and let your fight or flight do its thing. In the event you find that you are being too reactive to people…

  • Boundaries & Self-Respect - Confidence & Self-Worth - Emotional Well-Being - Healing & Inner Work - Perspective and Growth

    Self-Love: What It Really Means and How to Cultivate it in Your Everyday Life

    November 2, 2024 - By 

    Self-love is a topic that gets a lot of attention—but what does it actually mean? How do we cultivate self-love? If we have a healthy relationship with ourselves, we may want to deepen it. If we don’t, chances are, we feel that too. The presence or absence of self-love impacts every area of life: our relationships, career success, boundaries, and emotional well-being. But how do we get to a place of authentic self-love? And what does loving yourself truly look like in a world filled with mixed messages and unrealistic expectations? In this post, we’ll explore: Self-Love Looks Different for…

  • Perspective and Growth

    First Post: A Journey of Self-Discovery

    October 23, 2024 - By 

    This morning, I was talking to my therapist about why I keep giving myself excuses for not starting my blog. He pointed out that it’s my programming—those old beliefs and fears—that are stopping me from taking that step. Fear of rejection, fear of abandonment, and the thought that someone might not like what I write are all powerful forces that hold me back, just a few of the things I will talk about on my journey of self-discovery. One vivid thought that kept creeping into my mind was imagining my mom, all sweet in her little-old-lady housecoat, doing an innocent…