For years, I searched for a role model who could teach me things, and be an example of what a confident, empowered woman looked like. I had a vision of someone I could learn from and who was fearless, and wise. I wanted a mentor who would take me under her wing and help me embody all the qualities I admired in others. However, despite meeting many inspiring women, I couldn’t find the perfect role model – until I learned an important lesson: sometimes, to find your role model – you have to become her, yourself. The Search for a Role Model I was always drawn to strong, self-assured women…
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This morning, I was talking to my therapist about why I keep giving myself excuses for not starting my blog. He pointed out that it’s my programming – those old beliefs and fears – that are stopping me from taking that step. Fear of rejection, fear of abandonment, and the thought that someone might not like what I write are all powerful forces that hold me back, just a few of the things I will talk about on my journey of self-discovery. One vivid thought that kept creeping into my mind was imagining my mom, all sweet in her little-old-lady housecoat, doing an innocent Google search of my name. The…
