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  • We are looking a a city view, through broken fence. This image represents the core ideas in this blog, which are walls, barriers and boundaries. Does this fence represent a wall, barrier or a boundary? And does the hole in the fence mean that the viewer is breaking through those defenses to discover emotional freedom?

    How to Know the Difference Between Walls, Barriers and Boundaries

    May 13, 2025 /

    Everyone experiences pain at some point in their life. Whether you’re talking about things like loss, or disappointment, or learning that your best friend really isn’t a friend to you after all – pain from these moments teaches us something. Everyone reacts differently to painful lessons; some folks take it in stride and use that discomfort to create meaningful change in their lives. Others hold on to the pain, and sometimes they take protective measures to ensure they don’t get hurt again.  In this post, we’ll discuss the difference between walls, barriers and boundaries. When it comes to protecting ourselves and our emotional wellbeing, many of us instinctively put up…

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    A woman stands in a field of sunflowers and laughs. She has stopped feeling bad for everything. She understands that she is doing her best and that is enough.

    Stop Feeling Bad For Everything: Why It Happens and How to Break the Cycle

    July 20, 2026
    We see a girl walking with her friends on the beach. She is calm, relaxed and having fun. She knows how to be emotionally regulated.

    Emotional Regulation – Learning How to Stay With Yourself

    February 4, 2026
    Here a woman leans confidently against a reflective surface. She is dressed sharply with sunglasses, she knows that not everything deserves a response. She chooses to protect her peace.

    Not Everything Deserves a Response: The Power of Choosing Your Peace

    August 31, 2026
  • A girl stands in a scarf and hat, smiling. She seems to be considering the idea of being more open to her emotions. She is contemplating the idea that her emotions are much more complex than simply good or bad.

    Giving Your Emotions A Name: Moving Beyond “Good” Or “Bad”

    April 29, 2025 /

    Emotions are an essential part of the human experience, in fact, it’s our emotions that make us human. We feel our feelings all throughout the day, but how often do we really take time to understand what we’re feeling and why? Most of us have been conditioned to categorize emotions as “good” or “bad,” but the reality is, emotions are far too complicated and nuanced to use such a binary approach. Moving beyond the “good” vs. “bad” emotional framework allows you to better identify and understand your emotions, and get to know yourself in the process.  In this post, we’ll explore how to let go of the judgements you make…

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    A man stands facing one direction, and looking in another. He is enjoying view. Maybe he is considering how he views power, and how he wants to use his own.

    The Real Power Move: Using Your Strength to Lift Others Up

    December 11, 2025
    Here we see a girl sitting in nature, she's blonde with a hat and plaid shirt. She sits on a rock writing in a journal. Perhaps she is writing about her feelings and the details of her day. Journaling is a fantastic alternative to oversharing. Writing your feelings for you to read later is much more beneficial than oversharing for someone who can't understand how you better than you.

    Why Oversharing Leaves You Anxious – and What to Do Instead

    September 7, 2025
    A man stands in a field in a quiet moment. We wonder what he is thinking. He has an understanding that you can say anything to anyone - you just have to say it the right way.

    You Can Say Anything – If You Say It the Right Way

    July 17, 2025
  • Take a Breath: How to be Less Reactive

    November 7, 2024 /

    Why Am I So Reactive? Have you ever said something in the moment and immediately wished you could take it back? Maybe someone said something that irritated you, you responded sharply, and then later thought, “Why did I react like that?” Or maybe you knew you were getting angry, but felt like you couldn’t stop yourself from responding. There are so many different day-to-day events that can trigger us. How can we be less reactive when we’re emotionally triggered? Even further, why are we sometimes so reactive – even when we know we’d rather respond differently? Take a breath.  We aren’t talking about extenuating circumstances where you might be in…

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    A Lesson in Self-Esteem: How You Care for Yourself is Important

    April 12, 2025
    Here a woman leans confidently against a reflective surface. She is dressed sharply with sunglasses, she knows that not everything deserves a response. She chooses to protect her peace.

    Not Everything Deserves a Response: The Power of Choosing Your Peace

    August 31, 2026
    We see a man walking. He has his head up and he is looking forward. Maybe he feels good knowing he took responsibility and accountability for his actions, for his circumstances and for his life.

    How Accountability Leads to Empowerment

    November 9, 2025
  • The First Step to Understanding Your Emotions

    November 3, 2024 /

    Runaway thoughts often lead to overwhelming emotions. For many of us, managing and understanding your emotions can feel like an uphill battle – especially when some emotions seem to linger longer than welcome. But here’s the truth: your emotions are not your enemy. They’re messengers. In this post, we’ll walk through the first step to understanding your emotions, how to acknowledge them without judgment, and how that awareness can transform your emotional well-being. Why Understanding Your Emotions Is So Important Emotions are powerful. They’re complex. And above all, they’re trying to tell you something important. Whether you’re at work, trying to sleep, exercising, or making dinner – your emotions show…

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    Here we see a girl with big, beautiful, long curly blond hair. She is looking right into the camera, she seems to be the main character of the photo - but is she the main character of her own life?

    It’s Your Show – The Reality of Main Character Energy

    November 8, 2025

    Take a Breath: How to be Less Reactive

    November 7, 2024

    A Lesson in Self-Esteem: How You Care for Yourself is Important

    April 12, 2025
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