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Return to Yourself – Introducing the RETURN Method
The Exhaustion of “Fixing” It’s so common to feel like something is “wrong” with you. The idea that we aren’t good enough has been marketed to us our…
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The RETURN Method: Navigate Life Authentically
Authenticity Requires Consistency After Recognizing what feels off, Exploring the facts with curiosity, telling yourself the Truth, Understanding your patterns and needs, and Reclaiming the narrative of your…
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The RETURN Method: Reclaim the Narrative of Your Own Story
The Story You’ve Been Told vs. the Story You Choose Everyone tells themselves a story about their own lives. We all carry around a story of who we…
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The RETURN Method: Understand Your Needs, Patterns, and Boundaries
The Power of Understanding Yourself Many people try to “fix” themselves before they even really take the time to get to know themselves. How can you fix something…
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The RETURN Method: Truth – Being Honest With Yourself
The Moment After Curiosity So here we are. We have recognized that something feels off and explored the facts with curiosity. Now it’s time to be honest with…
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The RETURN Method: Explore the Facts with Curiosity
Once you’ve recognized that something felt off and spent some time with yourself to see how you feel and how you would like to respond, it’s time to…
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The RETURN Method: Recognize What Feels Off
The Subtle Signal Most People Miss If you aren’t in tune with your body, you might miss the subtle cues it gives you. Your body tells you when…
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Rejection Isn’t the Problem – Attachment to Outcome Is
Why Rejection Feels So Personal When we think about rejection, we usually focus on the pain of the rejection itself. Some of us think of rejection as the…
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Closure Is Sometimes Grief, Not Justice
The Myth That Closure Comes From Resolution I think many of us are taught in some form or another that closure comes when we get justice. We’re taught…
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Closure is a Boundary – Reclaiming Your Narrative
The Myth of Closure When someone hurts us, we want an explanation. We want them to tell us why they did it, or how they feel. Sometimes, after…
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Emotional Regulation for Adults
Why Emotional Regulation Matters Emotional regulation isn’t just “keeping calm, and carrying on”. It’s noticing how you are feeling, and navigating your way through those emotions intentionally. Have…
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How Boundaries Build Self-Trust and Discernment in Relationships
Boundaries and Real Life Practice Boundaries determine how you show up in your life. Before I even knew what boundaries were, I realized that I sort of just…
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Perspective is Everything
