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  • We see a city scene, folks are walking to their destinations. It's easy to hurry along in these situations, but what if they all just slowed down a little - what if they were more present and less rushed?
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    Slow Down: How to Stay Present When Life is Busy

    July 3, 2025 /

    There is always so much going on; most of us have a running to-do list that is a mile long. We’ve got deadlines to meet, errands to run, and don’t forget to clean the house because we’ve got company coming tomorrow. Of course, tending to our responsibilities is important. That also means that sometimes in life we have to sacrifice certain things to ensure that our responsibilities are met first. However, there’s something that you should consider when you think about how busy you are, and how you’re rushing around to get things done. Remember to take a break, remember to be present. Be conscious of how you use your…

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    A woman stands at a coffee shop, she looks at the camera and appears serious. She is choosing what she focuses on, and doesn't let the opinions of others affect her wellbeing.

    Dealing with Difficult People: Don’t Give Them Your Energy

    January 24, 2026
    A man looks at the camera in a white t-shirt, with a yellow background behind him.

    Rejection Isn’t the Problem – Attachment to Outcome Is

    March 11, 2026
    We see three people with their hands in the air, there is a lot of movement in this photo. It would appear these three people are friends and having a nice time together. They are free of worry about mean girl behavior. They accept each other and lift each other up.

    What is a Mean Girl, Really?

    June 29, 2025
  • We see a woman standing on a hiking trail, she walked over to the side for a break and to look at the view. What is she going through? Is she pondering what she learned from a relationship that recently ended? She knows that everyone has something to teach us.
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    Everyone Has Something to Teach Us

    June 28, 2025 /

    How many people do we meet over the course of our lives? Sometimes those people are with us throughout our whole lives, and sometimes they are only with us for the short term. However long the stay, everyone has something to teach us. The goal for this post is to remind folks to consider the greater good of their life journey when someone in their life chooses to exit. I tend to look at the end of a relationship as the end of a life lesson; what has that person taught me?  Different people are meant to show you certain things. Someone who oversteps your boundaries may be teaching you…

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    A man stands facing one direction, and looking in another. He is enjoying view. Maybe he is considering how he views power, and how he wants to use his own.

    The Real Power Move: Using Your Strength to Lift Others Up

    December 11, 2025
    A man sits pleasantly with himself, looking off to his right. He is recalling facts and keeping an open mind.

    The RETURN Method: Explore the Facts with Curiosity

    March 21, 2026
    We see a city scene, folks are walking to their destinations. It's easy to hurry along in these situations, but what if they all just slowed down a little - what if they were more present and less rushed?

    Slow Down: How to Stay Present When Life is Busy

    July 3, 2025
  • A woman walks through a grassy field wearing a hat, the image has a lot of movement and makes you feel as if she is in the middle of a private thought. Maybe she is contemplating what it means to protect your energy, maybe she is curious to learn more.
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    What it Means to Protect Your Energy, and What If You Were Curious Instead?

    June 7, 2025 /

    I feel like this saying is everywhere: Protect your energy. It’s become a kind of modern mantra—a shorthand for emotional self-care. Whether you’re navigating toxic work environments, draining relationships, or trying to avoid burnout, the idea of protecting your energy offers a sense of empowerment. It’s a way to reclaim your peace, and – there’s more to it than that. I mentioned the phrase “protect your energy” to my therapist once. In response, he paused and asked, “What would happen if, instead of using the word protect, you used the word curious?” It was a subtle shift—but one I’ve referenced ever since. What if protecting your energy is only part…

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    Here we see a woman looking off to the right of the screen. She is standing in her truth, owning the moment and moving on.

    Accepting the Moment – Own it and Keep Going

    October 26, 2025
    We see a man walking outside in the sun, with the warm glow of the suns rays shining through his raised arms. He looks down, possibly in thought. He is facing away from the camera. We can ask ourselves if he is letting go of the need to control the opinions of others.

    Let Them Be Wrong About You

    August 29, 2025
    Two women are happy and smiling for their photo together. Both have bright smiles and seem to be good friends. Maybe they are confident and need the approval of others less than they once did. Maybe they are learning that not everyone is going to react well to you living in your authenticity. By reading this post, they'll learn that that's just a part of life, and the journey to becoming who you really are.

    Four Reasons Why Your Confidence Can Unsettle Others

    June 15, 2025
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    First Post: A Journey of Self-Discovery

    October 23, 2024 /

    This morning, I was talking to my therapist about why I keep giving myself excuses for not starting my blog. He pointed out that it’s my programming—those old beliefs and fears—that are stopping me from taking that step. Fear of rejection, fear of abandonment, and the thought that someone might not like what I write are all powerful forces that hold me back, just a few of the things I will talk about on my journey of self-discovery. One vivid thought that kept creeping into my mind was imagining my mom, all sweet in her little-old-lady housecoat, doing an innocent Google search of my name. The last thing I wanted…

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    A woman takes a deep breath as she stands with a breeze in her hair. Her eyes are closed as she looks inward. She is hopeful, optimistic and she knows that she is enough.

    Someone to Look Up To: Finding My Inner Role Model

    November 12, 2024
    A man stands facing one direction, and looking in another. He is enjoying view. Maybe he is considering how he views power, and how he wants to use his own.

    The Real Power Move: Using Your Strength to Lift Others Up

    December 11, 2025
    A man sits pleasantly with himself, looking off to his right. He is recalling facts and keeping an open mind.

    The RETURN Method: Explore the Facts with Curiosity

    March 21, 2026
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